It doesn’t matter what age you are, you can look fabulous at any age as a crossdresser. Perhaps you want to look sexy, or you want to pass as a female, or you just want to wear what’s comfortable; if you’re wondering how to look your best as a crossdresser, we’ve put together some simple rules you can follow which will help you feel great and look fantastic.
Keep these simple guidelines in mind each time you dress and you will look and feel sexy when you go out.
Our Top Crossdresser Looks to Help You Feel Your Best
- Killer Confidence
- Keeping Up With Trends
- Diet & Exercise
- Realizing Sexy Vs. Slutty
Crossdresser Confidence
Let’s be clear, looking sexy and feeling fab can become harder as you age but, your confidence is always key. Be sure to always bring confidence to every outfit, smile, and movement no matter what your age is, and you’re well on your way to always looking your best. The pure feeling and being of feminine confidence is sexy to so many. The mindset alone can bring anyone so far. Just be sure to have mastered natural feminine characteristics; not just a great outfit but poise and feminine movement. All of these combine to give an authentic feminine image that in itself feeds your confidence.
We know this can become hard as you age since you might be realizing new aspects of your body that you might not like, but, just remember that you can still look bomb with killer confidence. There’s nothing sexier than someone who walks into a room and owns it!
Keeping Up With Trends
There’s a very high chance that you won’t look sexy wearing the same dress you bought 20 years ago. And you probably won’t feel the same either. How to look good is heavily weighted by how you feel too. For older crossdressers, it’s likely that your body has changed and the styles and trends have changed. So, one way to look good as you get older is to interpret new and current trends in a way you feel comfortable. And after all, there’s nothing sexier than someone who has killer style. Why not be your own Kris Jenner and buy some looks outside your comfort zone a little? See how you feel. Plus, there’s something about wearing a new outfit for the first time that makes you feel great. Keep up to date with age-appropriate trends on the internet or next time in the Doctor’s waiting room, scan the pages of the fashion and celebrity magazines to see what’s current.
Don’t ever get boring with the shoes. Sure as you age, drop some inches on those heels but, keep it cute! There are plenty of stylish flats, loafers, and chunky small heels that are a breeze to walk in and bring some great style.
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Diet & Exercise
The perfect time to eat healthily and stay active is at any age. Keeping up with your health is sexy to most people, and your body does not have to be the first thing that gets neglected when you age. You may need to make adjustments to your diet and exercise as you age but, it is worth it to feel sexy and confident within yourself. After all, if you feel you look good, that will give you even more confidence to look your best.
If self-discipline is difficult then find a friend or lifestyle trainer to help you set realistic and achievable goals and measure on a monthly basis. Make adjustments to ensure you stay on track to develop a new healthier you.
Imagine walking into a crossdresser conference a year later after initiating a new healthy lifestyle after your last visit. The reaction of your attending girlfriends will make you feel like the most sexy girl and that will make your attendance worth the admission alone!
Realizing Sexy Vs Slutty
In some circumstances, it can be unflattering for someone to wear an inappropriate outfit for their age. This advice doesn’t just apply to clothing either. You need to think about your choices in accessories too, for example, avoid things like hairpieces in styles and colors only a 20-something would wear, or avoid layering on the makeup and using colors that are too heavy. As you get older, we find that less is definitely more when trying to replicate an authentic female image. However, remember that getting older doesn’t mean looking older, it just means dressing with style and flair. Again, look to media sources for inspiration or go to the mall and watch age appropriate stylish women entering the high-end clothing stores and department stores to see how they do it.
Summary
Stay in touch with your body as you age. There will be styles and looks that may have looked fabulous once, but they’re perhaps no longer suitable for the look you want to emulate. Don’t ignore the signs; if people are staring, if you feel uncomfortable, or it’s just too damn short – get rid of it. There’s no need to stockpile old items that might tempt you. Clear out some space for new more appropriate items that have an extra inch or is made with a thicker or more comfortable material. We recommend avoiding very low cut tops and be sure to match your breast forms with your age too. Having boobs up to your chin will look suspicious. Invest in some natural hanging breast forms, again to give a more realistic female image for your age.
We hope these four rules help you tremendously over the years. If you think we forgot to mention anything please let us know by emailing [email protected]!