Crossdressing can be empowering and exciting, however figuring out the essentials to include in your wardrobe can sometimes feel a little overwhelming. If you’re at the beginning of your crossdressing journey you may be unsure about where to start. That said, developing a more comprehensive collection of clothing and accessories can be equally as daunting even if you are an experienced crossdresser.
At Glamour Boutique we have years of experience when it comes to helping people to identify the most important crossdressing essentials. This places us in a perfect position to advise you on how to identify which items are key to include in your collection. Here are our top 15 crossdressing essentials to help you get started:
Body Shaping
To create a look that is connivingly feminine you will want to invest in quality body shaping. A typical male body shape can be quite different to that of a typical woman, and those wanting a more curvaceous look should consider shaping garments such as breast forms, corsets, clinchers, slimmers, hip padding or padded panties. However, don’t panic, you won’t necessarily need every product on the market to create an hourglass figure. Our guide on the basics of body shaping for crossdressers is a great place to start.
Breast Forms
While some prefer the flat-chested look, many who crossdress also want to create convincing cleavage which enhances their look and helps them to feel more voluptuous. But there is more to getting the right breast forms than what first meets the eye. From silicone to gels and foam, breast forms are made from all sorts of different materials. They also come in different shapes and sizes. To find the best option for you, we suggest starting with our guide on the different types of breast forms available.
Dresses
There are few garments more feminine than a well-fitted dress, making it a staple of any crossdresser’s wardrobe. When deciding on the best dress(es) to buy, you will want to consider which of the available options best fit your frame, size and complexion. For example, ask yourself what color best suits your skin tone and features? Does a strapless dress work for your frame?
You will also want to consider other aspects such as the fit and length. One classic option if you are starting out is a little black dress, as it will never go out of style.
Heels & Shoes
Heels can help make or break an outfit, so it is important to take the time to select shoes that fit and promote your overall look. From heels or open heeled sandals to pumps or boots, there are many different options. However, finding correctly sized heels and footwear can sometimes be a little challenging at first if you do not have experience in this area. A great place to start is with our guide on male to female shoe sizes.
Hosiery
Although not everyone will opt for hosiery, investing in great stockings can be an excellent crossdressing essential for those who want to feel even more confident and sexy. Many of the stockings offered in regular stores will not fit those with more masculine legs, so shopping around for the right pair is key. Checking out our blog on stockings and pantyhose is a great place to start.
Wigs
Like it or not, a wig is essential to framing your face and is often a key part of the puzzle when it comes to feminizing your look. When it comes to wigs there is a huge variation in not just in styles and colors, but also quality and price. It is normally advisable to invest in a human hair wig and one that is of the best possible quality within your budget. Not only are better quality wigs more likely to last longer, but they also look more convincing. Start by reading our blog on choosing the best wig for your face shape.
Jewelry
From necklaces and earrings to watches and bangles, jewelry can create a look which is truly polished and professional. When considering the crossdressing essentials, you will want to think about which pieces best work for your frame and help to feminize your look. For example, chunkier pieces may better flatter those with a wider frame. However, it is also important to choose items which you like, and which match your outfit to help to create your desired look. If you don’t want to pierce you ears, clip-on earrings can be a great alternative. Check out our top tips for crossdresser jewelry.
Crossdressing Accessories
While the basics such as body shaping, wigs and heels are often the best place to start, accessories can be key to create a look which is highly polished. Alongside jewelry, you may also want to consider statement pieces which match your outfits, as well as more feminine versions of items that you would usually use when presenting as a male. This could include watches, wallets, phone covers or more feminine eyewear if you wear glasses.
Outerwear
If you are looking to present or ‘pass’ in public, then you may want to consider what outerwear you will need when you leave your home. For example, you may not want to wear a coat designed for men on top of your ‘en femme’ look on a cold winter’s day. You may instead consider investing in feminine clothing that is also warmer and able to withstand colder weather.
Make Up
There is certainly plenty of makeup available online and in stores, however not all of it well adapted for men’s skin. With so many different types of products on the market, it can also be a bit of a minefield to work out what make up to buy and when to use it. Some core basics include concealer, foundation, powder, lipstick, eye liner, eye shadow and mascara. You will also want to get a quality makeup mirror and a good set of brushes to create a more professional look. Confused? Check out our makeup tips for crossdressers.
Beard Cover
Before you apply foundation, you will want to think about a quality beard cover. Even after a close shave, signs of stubble and sometimes a blue tint are often still visible under make up. So, to get the most feminine look you will want to use a beard cover with a color on the opposite end of the spectrum (such as orange). This will help to neutralize the blue of the stubble.
Moisturizer
Even on days where you might not present as femme, applying a moisturizer regularly can have huge benefits. Not only is it great for your skin, but it will help it to look healthier and can give you a brilliant glow that you will really appreciate when you are dressed to impress. If you are worried about ‘passing’ you may also want to invest in a decent hand cream to help soften the appearance of your hands.
Nails
Long painted nails go a long way to creating a more feminine look, which is why you may want to consider growing out your nails and buying a quality nail polish and nail polish remover. For some it won’t be practical to wear longer nails in their everyday life, and if this resonates with you then investing in some removable fake nails could be a great option. Some fake nails even come ready painted and are easy to ‘press on’.
Hair Removal
We salute everyone who embraces their body hair, however for some hair removal goes hand-in-hand with creating a more feminine look. If you fall into the latter group, you may want to consider stocking up on hair removal products such as razors, shaving cream, hair removal creams or even waxing products.
Perfume
If you want to smell as feminine as possible, then getting a bottle of perfume to use when you dress to impress can be a great way to increase your confidence. Sampling all of the different scents available can be a lot of fun too! You may also wish to consider a feminine deodorant scent as well.
At Glamour Boutique we have many years of experience in helping people to find the right clothing and accessories to feminize their look. If you are looking for more crossdressing tips and advice, then why not visit our crossdressing blog to find out more?